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2nd day of Hari Raya - 2 Syawal 1428h

2007-10-14T22:28:00.000+08:00

2nd Hari Raya normally pagi we all tak gi mana2, petang baru la nak gi ziarah rumah sedara mara...
So kesempatan terluang pagi nie we all sibuk ambil gambar anak2 berposing ngan pakaian baru... My daughters memang suka, yer la once a year sambut raya... Here is a few of their picture...

HAPPY VIEWING.....

Selamat Menyambut 1 Syawal 1428h

2007-10-13T22:57:00.000+08:00

Selamat Hari Raya Diucapkan kepada semua warga Blogger's. Semoga Syawal pada tahun ini memberi keberkatan kepada kita semua. Insya'allah....

Al Fatihah buat Adik Nurin Jazlin Jazimin

2007-09-22T15:29:00.000+08:00

Pada 20 Ogos Nurin Jazlin Jazimin dikatakan hilang setelah keluar bersendirian untuk ke pasar malam berhampiran rumahnya di Wangsa Maju. Dalam kejadian yang lain, Isnin lalu, mayat budak perempuan tidak berbaju yang disahkan mangsa deraan seks ditemui dalam sebuah beg sukan di Jalan PJS1, Petaling Jaya Utama. Kasihan sungguh apabila mendengar kemaluan dan dubur mangsa perbuatan orang seks maniac ini disumbat dengan terung dan timun.

Setelah Ujian asid deoksiribonukleik DNA dijalankan, didapati mayat tersebut mempunyai DNA yang sama dengan ibu bapa Nurin Jazlin Jazimin. Khabarnya, dapati 99.99 peratus sampel darah budak hilang sepadan ibu bapa. Namun, ianya dinafikan oleh bapa Nurin Jazlin Jazimin atas sebab fizikal mayat tidak sama dengan anaknya. Begitu juga dengan polis yang masih belum mengesahkannya dan pemeriksaan DNA kedua akan dibuat.

Nasihat saya kepada ibu bapa di luar sana, jagalah anak-anak anda baik-baik. Jangan dibiarkan anak anda keluar bersendirian. Terapkan nilai-nilai masyarakat yang positif dalam jiwa mereka. Ibu bapa kini perlu juga membuat penilaian semula, amalan negatif mana yang patut dibuang kerana tidak lagi sesuai dan boleh mengundang bahaya.

Melihat kepada gambar Nurin Jazlin Jazimin dan gambar mayat gadis yang didera itu, kemungkinan besar mayat tersebut adalah Nurin Jazlin Jazimin. Kini, kita hanya menunggu pemeriksaan DNA yang kedua dijalankan.

Updated: Bapa Tuntut Mayat Nurin

Dengan linangan air mata, Jazimin Abdul Jalil, pagi ini menuntut mayat anaknya Nurin Jazlin, 8, dari Hospital Kuala Lumpur untuk dikebumikan selepas solat Jumaat.

Jazimin, 33, yang sebelum ini menafikan mayat itu adalah anaknya yang hilang diculik sejak 20 Ogos lalu walaupun ujian asid deoksiribonukleik (DNA) membuktikan sebaliknya, dilihat sebak dan berterusan mengalir air mata sepanjang proses menuntut mayat Nurin Jazlin, mangsa bunuh dan penderaan seksual.

Jazimin, yang berbaju Melayu merah jambu dan berseluar hitam dengan ditemani keluarga dan sanak saudaranya, dibenarkan membawa keluar mayat anak gadisnya itu pada jam 11.15 pagi ini, dan selepas bacaan doa lalu beredar keluar dengan sebuah van, sambil disaksikan sayu oleh orang ramai dan kakitangan hospital.

Di Seksyen Satu, Wangsa Maju di kediaman keluarga itu, ibu kanak-kanak itu, Norazian Bistaman, 35, menunggu suaminya untuk membawa pulang buat kali terakhir Nurin Jazlin yang lebih mesra dengan panggilan ‘Kak Ngah’ dalam kalangan keluarga dan jirannya.

Jenazah Nurin Jazlin telah dikebumikan di tanah perkuburan Islam Wangsa Maju selepas solat Jumaat hari ini.

Sumber: Bernama

Ucapan Salam Takziah

Saya dan keluarga ingin mengucapkan Salam Takziah kepada keluarga Allahyarham Nurin Jazlin. Semoga ujian besar ini ditempuhi dengan tabah dan anggaplah segala cubaan mempunyai hikmah yang tersembunyi dari Yang Maha Esa.

Al-Fatihah…

Buffet Lunch @ Palace of The Golden Horses - 8 Sept 2007

2007-09-21T17:22:00.000+08:00

On 8 September 2007 I went to have Buffet lunch @ Palace of The Golden Horses with my family. Last year pun kita org makan kat sini before start Puasa. Actually this year kita org follow my mother nyer kumpulan KUTU makan buffet kat sini... ramai2 syok skit makan yer tak... Tapi bagi I, kalau nak makan buffet ni kena bagi kat org yang betul2 boleh makan... kalau tak rugi... Mcm I tak boleh la nak bawa makan buffet, tak larat la... tapi nak gi jgk sebab ada mcm2 jenis makanan... Kat sini Buffet lunch dia org charge RM40++ (ADULT) & RM20++ (CHILDREN).
That day Pemain Pasukan Bola Sepak Kedah pun makan2 kat situ.. Actually I tak kenal la dia org, my brother said that they all ader match malam tu... huhuhuhu... Lantak depa la.. Kalau I terserempak ngan artis2 ok la jugak.. ni pemain bola sepak wat per.... huhuhuhuhuu....

My brother tgh makan desert la tu... Dia nie memang kuat makan....

My daddy, mummy & my daughter...
Kusyuk nyer masing2 ....

Syafiqah Graduation Day - 21 September 2007

2007-09-21T15:40:00.001+08:00

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Today is my daughter Syafiqah Pre School Graduation Day (21 Sept 2007).
Next year she will be in Standard One at Sek Keb Puteri Seremban.
Seronok dia hari nie sebab dapat Sijil Tamat Pra Sekolah...
Hope she will be a good daughter and good student... Insya'allah...
AMIN....

CONGRATULATIONS TO
NUR SYAFIQAH ALMIRA BT MUHAMAD SUPIYAN

Syafiqah wit her friends Izzati, Nurul Safiqa & Nurin Tihani
waiting for their turn to receive Certificate.

Syafiqah wit her "SIJIL TAMAT PRA SEKOLAH"

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2nd day puasa..

2007-09-14T13:39:00.000+08:00

2nd day puasa.. anak2 i bangun sahur. Adik bangun tapi katanya tak nak puasa. Nak tau aper sebab dia tak nak puasa hari nie... katanya nanti adik jadi kurus sangat lagi susah.. Hahaha... wat lawak btul la anak aku nie.. suka hati la janji dia dapat berpuasa penuh semalam... kakak plak masih lagi berpuasa...

Today kakak tak g sekolah sebab sakit perut (cirit birit).. dah beberapa hari dia tak sedap perut. Tadi (11.00pg) call dia tanya sama ader masih puasa atau tidak dia kata tak sebab tak larat... yer la air banyak kluar.. kesian dia.. biar la dia pun tak sihat kan...

Harap2 hari ni dapat la sampai rumah cepat... tak sanggup la berbuka dalam bus... huhuhu... harap hari ni tak banyak org beratur macam semalam...

SELAMAT BERBUKA KEPADA SEMUA....

1st day puasa...

2007-09-14T13:17:00.000+08:00

Firstly, Selamat Menyambut Ramadhan Al-Mubarakh kepada semua umat Islam diseluruh dunia... semoga ibadah yang kita jalani ini mendapat berkat dari Nya.

Here I want to cerita about my daughters 1st day and 1st time puasa. Actually, dia org dah lama berkobar2 nak berpuasa since early this year (bersemangat kan). Siap menghitung hari lagi kat calendar. Haha.. bersemangat nya anak2 mummy... Ok.. 1st day bersahur memang senang jer nak bangunkan bdk2 berdua tu, mana tak nya semangat nak berpuasa dia org dah lama dipupuk. Dia org bersahur makan french toast and susu coklat. Pesan kat dia org kalau tak larat dapat setengah hari pun jadi la.. n pesan lagi kat dia org lepas ni dah tak boleh makan n minum lagi, pukul 7 lebih nanti baru boleh berbuka sama2 (7pm). Yang kakak masih faham adik mcm blur2 lagi... mana tak nyer dia masih tak berapa faham.

Pukul 6.00am bersiap utk g sekolah n i plak nak gi kerja... ader incident my mum said that adik pergi dapur nak minum... huhuhu... my mum pun tegur dia la.. kesian dia... hehehehe... yang kakak ok lagi..

Pukul 12.00tgh my sister sms me told that my both daughter masih lagi tahan berpuasa... Wah!! ini sudah bagus kata i dalam hati... Harap2 dia org puasa penuh la... my sister said that adik minta nak makan but she didnt give her. Ask her to tahan... ala berpa jam lagi kan... kakak plak dah tidur, kata my sister dia sakit perut tu yang tidur tu... Risau jgk kot2 gastrik ke kan...

Pukul 5.00pm i balik dari ofis i did sms them tanya whether both of them still puasa, YES!!! they did... ALHAMDULILLAH... nampaknya anak2 i hampir berjaya memenuhi puasa utk 1 hari..

Ingat kan 1st day puasa dapat berbuka sama dengan dia org tapi tak dapat jgk sebab memang ramai yang nak balik awal, dah la nak naik bus kena berbaris panjang... letih betul la... tak per la Sat & Sun i akan dapat jgk buka puasa ngan dia org...

Tapi ader satu lagi, I tak dapat berpuasa, bersahur n berbuka bersama ngan my husband... Dia berpuasa di Shenzen China. Raya tahun nie pun tanpa dia... Huhuuu... anyway if he read this blog saya nak ucapkan SELAMAT BERPUASA kat awak.. n harap jaga diri bebaik kat tempat org.... WE LOVE & MISS U HERE...

SELAMAT BERPUASA KEPADA SEMUA UMAT ISLAM....

Selamat Menyambut Ramadhan Almubarak

2007-09-14T13:07:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum semua.....

Do'a malaikat Jibril menjelang Ramadhan....

"Ya Allah tolong abaikan puasa umat Muhammad, apabila sebelum memasuki bulan Ramadhan dia tidak melakukan hal-hal yang berikut: "

* Tidak memohon maaf terlebih dahulu kepada kedua orang tuanya (jika masih ada);

* Tidak bermaafan terlebih dahulu antara suami isteri;

* Tidak bermaafan terlebih dahulu dengan orang-orang sekitarnya. Maka Rasulullah pun mengatakan Amiin sebanyak 3 kali.

Dapatkah kita bayangkan, yang berdo'a adalah Malaikat dan yang meng-amiinkan adalah Rasullullah dan para sahabat, dan dilakukan pada hari Jumaat. Oleh itu saya terlebih dahulu memohon maaf jika saya ada berbuat kesalahan, baik yang tidak di sengaja mahupun yang di sengaja, semoga kita dapat menjalani ibadah puasa dengan khusyuk, diberkati dan dirahmati Allah S.W.T, insyaalla.

SELAMAT MENYAMBUT BULAN RAMADHAN AL-MUBARAK..

My husband work place....

2007-09-01T13:35:00.000+08:00

Tak banyak gambar yang saya dapat dari husband yang kini berada di Shenzen, China...
Katanya tak der masa nak upload... Yang saya letak kat sini sumer gambar2 dia kat Restaurant yang di kerja sekarang... Nama restaurant tu HangLiPo (Malaysian Fine Cuisine)... Sekarang ni dia busy skit meeting ngan org2 Tourism kat Guongzhou... Almaklum la sekarang kan musim kemerdekaan dan tahun melawat malaysia so bz skit utk mempromosikan Malaysia kat Shenzen China....

My Favourite Song

2007-08-20T17:46:00.001+08:00

Teringat masa zaman kolej dulu.. Ish.. memang best la..

Lets eat FRUITssss...

2007-07-19T13:17:00.000+08:00

Last Saturday, kita org pergi balik kampung untuk menikmati buah-buahan yang terdapat didusun... Ader banyak buah-buahan terutamanya Durian, Manggis, Rambutan & Pulasan... Yum!! Yum!! Sedapnya...

JOM KITA MAKAN BUAH-BUAHAN TEMPATAN....

Suami ku tiada disisi...

2007-07-03T15:30:00.000+08:00

Hari ni hari yang paling sedih sekali dalam hidup aku and anak2... dalam pukul 4.00am 3 july 2007 aku menghantar suamiku ke airport... dia ke Shenzen China selama setahun untuk bekerja... wa..wa.. aku tak pernah ditinggalkan begitu lama... dulu kalau ditinggalkan lama pun tapi masih dekat, tapi kini dia berada jauh... huhuhhu... menangis jangan cakap la... aku cuba gaks control tapi tak boleh... huhuhu... keluar jgk airmata aku...

Apa2 pun aku harap dia kan berjaya kat sana... dan tidak lupa pada aku dan anak2 dia disini... I will come and visit him if he tak dapat cuti masa raya nanti... I really miss him now... Luv you sayang...

Crocs Shoe - Prima Ballet

2007-05-16T12:11:00.000+08:00

Those crocs shoes are cool, aren't they?? It's fun, it's cool & it's comfy!!!
One day I will get one too... especially those "Prima Ballet"....

Syafiqah won in 3rd Place in Pertandingan Tulisan Pra Sekolah (Bulan Bahasa Melayu 2007)

2007-05-14T16:17:00.000+08:00

Minggu lepas, balik dari kerja my daughter Syafiqah beriya-iya citer kat i yang dia dapat trofi masa kat sekolah. I asked her, kenapa kakak dapat trofi?? She said that she won 3rd place in Pertandingan Tulisan Pra Sekolah (Bulan Bahasa Melayu 2007). Dia citer masa perhimpunan that day cikgu dia panggil ke depan untuk terima hadiah dari pengetua sekolah. She was so excited that day. I proud of her...

I tell her kalau kakak nak dapat hadiah macam nie lagi kakak kena belajar pandai2. She said, kakak akan belajar pandai2 lepas tu nak belajar kat Australia... I asked her why Australia, why not Amerika ke, London ke or other place? She said America ader benda pusing2 (twister) yang boleh wat orang mati... Ya Allah anak ku, macam tu sekali pemikiran dia... Haha... Tapi yang penting saya akan doakan dia dan adik dia berjaya dunia dan akhirat... Amin...

Today (14-05-07) dia ader exam. I hope she can do her best... GOOD LUCK KAKAK!!!
Mummy doakan kakak boleh jawab semua soalan dengan betul...

Ini la trofi yang Syafiqah memang.

Hand made Mother's Day card from my both princesses...

2007-05-14T15:21:00.000+08:00

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This is the mother's day card done by my younger daughter ELLiSYA...

This is the mother's day card done by my elder daughter SYAFIQAH...

"Thanks kakak & adik, mummy really like it" I love you both very much!!! Muah!!!

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HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!

2007-05-14T14:10:00.000+08:00

""Happy Mother's Day to all Mother around the world...""

This is some Mothers Day Quote for all Mother around the world...

1. The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new.

2. Being a full-time mother is one of the highest salaried jobs... since the payment is pure love.

3. A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie.

4. If the whole world were put into one scale, and my mother in the other, the whole world would kick the beam.

5. All mothers are working mothers.

6. When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts. A mother always has to think twice, once for herself and once for her child.

7. Mothers are fonder than fathers of their children because they are more certain they are their own.

8. Mother love is the fuel that enables a normal human being to do the impossible.

9. Mother - that was the bank where we deposited all our hurts and worries.

10. A man loves his sweetheart the most, his wife the best, but his mother the longest.

I'm born on Thursday 29 years ago...

2007-05-07T16:54:00.000+08:00

Age in years	29.05
Age in months	349
Age in days	10602
Age in hours	254459
Age in minutes	15267513
Age in seconds	916050754
Age in Milli seconds	91605075388
Age in weeks	74217
You born on	Thusday

APRIL
* Active and dynamic
* Decisive and hateful but tends to regret
* Attractive and affectionate to oneself
* Strong mentality
* Loves attention
* Diplomatic
* Consoling
* Friendly and solves people's problems
* Brave and fearless
* Adventurous
* Loving and caring
* Suave and generous
* Emotional
* Revengeful
* Aggressive
* Hasty
* Good memory
* Moving
* Motivate oneself and the others
* Sickness usually of the head and chest
* Easily get too jealous

ES CAMPUR a.k.a Air Batu Campur

2007-05-04T13:36:00.000+08:00

The people in Bukit Tinggi, Indonesia called it "ES CAMPUR". Here in Malaysia we called it Air Batu Campur (ABC), but the different between ES Campur & ABC are in ES Campur they put verities of fruits such as Avocado, Papaya, Pineapple, Chiku. Taste so yummy... Harga bagi satu mangkuk Es Campur adalah Rp.5.000 (RM2.00) cheap right... every time we passed by the stall mesti singgah. Tokey kedai tu pun dah kenal kat kita org... Hahaha... This kind of ES Campur can't find in Malaysia....

GOOD NEWS...

2007-05-04T12:14:00.000+08:00

Today at 11.19am I received an sms from my husband. But bukan sms biasa yang I terima dari dia selalu... Nie sms yang amat menggembirakan... Today (4th May 07) he got promoted as OPERATIONS MANAGER and will be transfered to MeZquite 52 at Jalan Doraisamy. Alhamdulillah!! Before this dia kerja kat RUM JUNGLE at Jalan P Ramlee. I'm happy for him, after kerja keras dia bekerja selama ni akhirnya mendatangkan hasil... Yey!!! want to celebrate with him but dont know when... I hope more rezeki will come to us after this...
Insya'allah...

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My 29th Birthday!!!

2007-04-20T13:29:00.000+08:00

Yey!!! Today is my Birthday!! I'm 29th today.... Alamak dah tua la... Hahaha... I'm suppose to be happy today but I'm not coz since mid night last night until now (2.00pm), my husband didnt wish me anything to me, no card/present from him, or sms even call pun tak der... Sob!!Sob!! Nampak sangat yang dia memang tak ingat my birthday... Sob!!Sob!!

But nasib baik ader my daughters yang meng"happy"kan I... mana tak nyer pkl 5.30am my eldest daughter bangun dia dah wish mummy dia "HAPPY BIRTHDAY MUMMY"... Im so touching... Actually dia dah ingat my birthday since January... setiap hari dia menghitung my Birthday... "Thanks fiqah & elly... mummy luv both of u so much".... tak lupa jgk pada my sister, brother, friends, my boss NG n my colleague (zura, nicole, cyndy, teng-teng, cecilia, melinda, frankie, farizan, ummu, cpei sang, and etc...) yang wish I happy birthday... Thank you to all of you...

Tak per la... mungkin memang dia (my husband) lupa my Birthday... But I'm still SAD!!!!

Anyway... my birthday every year is not a Happy & Fun day for me... I really want a wonderful birthday once in the life time (yang takkan dpt dilupakan) ... but that's all angan2 ajer... Sabar aje la.... Chiow!!!

Happy Birthday to Me!!!
Happy Birthday to Me!!!
Happy Birthday to Myself!!!
Happy Birthday to Me!!!

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Anak2 ku...

2007-04-03T13:37:00.000+08:00

Kakak wit her long wavy hair... Dulu Adik selalu jealous bila tgk rambut kakak dia panjang dan boleh ikat macam2 stail. Tapi skrg tidak lagi sebab rambut adik dah panjang, tapi tak la panjang mcm kakak... Yang bagusnya tentang mereka berdua nie, dia org dah pandai ikat rambut dia org sendiri since dia org umur 3 yrs old.

I like adik hair coz her hair kat bahagian bawah so curly. Very nice, but she really dont like her hair coz terlalu kerinting.. She like my hair, both of them always tanya me why their hair tak straight like mummy hair.. I ckp mummy hair also not so straight. They said bile besar nnt kakak/adik nak straight kan rambut mcm mummy.. Mmm.. ader2 jer la anak2 aku ..

Me wit my kids masa weekend hari tu.. tak der benda nak wat, posing la begini... hahaha....

Romantic things to do for your wife - Things she'll simply love

2007-03-30T17:00:00.000+08:00

Mark those special days

Make a last of all the days that she might want to celebrate - the
day you met, your yearly anniversary, even the anniversary of your
first kiss! If not all, make it a point to lavish more time on her
on one of these occasions! A little handmade card (even if it's
plain paper folded over) will do.

Reach out and touch her

Nothing brightens up your day more than a warm hug or a tight
squeeze before setting out for work. An inviting warm hug or back
rub at the end of a stressful day is always appreciated.

Make her feel special... everyday!

You could do little things for her everyday. It might be forwarding
her an interesting article, sending her a joke or even sharing
office gossip. She will appreciate that you took a moment to think
of her during the course of your day.

It's the thought that counts

Do something thoughtful for her everyday. Make her a cup of coffee,
bring in the newspaper from the terrace, stick a surprise note in
her bag or send her flowers at office! Everyone loves a romantic
surprise. Go ahead, make her day!

Wow her... daily!

Just because you're together doesn't mean you don't pay attention to
your appearance. Show off your best! Women love to see their men
preening for them - shave, smell nice, look good. When she knows
it's for her, she'll love it!

Romantic things to do for your husband - Things he will simply love

2007-03-30T16:49:00.000+08:00

Rule 1: Don't expect return favours in return!

Special meals, candle-light dinners, whatever else you do for him
should be because you are obliged to do so! It's nice if he does
something for you in return, but don't expect him to do stuff for
you as well.

Rule 2: In control!

Men love to see their women run the show - whether it's dinner for
his boss, a picnic with friends or buying a gift for his best
friend. Take charge and let him get his kicks out of watching his
girl go!

Rule 3: Junk mushy, try funny....

.. or whatever else appeals to him. If he hasn't been responding to
your sappy love notes, it's time to try a different approach. A cute
joke might just be what the doctor prescribed!

Rule 4: Think sex. Mostly!

They say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Well, we
say it lies lower! So we've been told that men think sex all the
time. Well, while you make sure your man stays happy most of the
time, it's a good idea to do something else as well. Think up an
interesting diversion - lay a game, challenge him - and watch sparks
fly!

Rule 5: Join him, beat him!

If you don't like your man's video game playing, or F1
watching, stop cribbing and join in. When he sees you're
appreciating what he does, he'll join in what you want to do too. Be
patient!

40 kesilapan mendidik anak...

2007-03-30T14:18:00.000+08:00

Kepada Ibubapa & Bakal Ibubapa, sila didik anak2 anda dengan betul...
Jadikan contoh2 dibawah sebagai panduan...

1.Pemilihan jodoh tanpa memperhitungkan mengenai zuriat
2. Perhubungan suami isteri tanpa memperhitungkan mengenai zuriat
3. Kurang berlemah lembut terhadap anak-anak
4. Memaki hamun sebagai cara menegur kesilapan anak-anak
5. Tidak berusaha mempelbagaikan makanan yang disajikan kepada anak-anak
6. Jarang bersama anak-anak sewaktu mereka sedang makan
7. Melahirkan suasana yang kurang seronok ketika makan
8. Membeza-bezakan kasih sayang terhadap anak-anak
9. Kurang melahirkan kasih sayang
10. Sering mengeluh di hadapan anak-anak
11. Tidak meraikan anak-anak ketika mereka pergi dan pulang dari sekolah
12. Tidak mengenalkan anak-anak dengan konsep keadilan
13. Tidak memberatkan pendidikan agama di kalangan anak-anak
14. Tidak terlibat dengan urusan pelajaran anak-anak
15. Tidak memprogramkan masa rehat dan riadah anak-anak
16. Tidak menggalakkan dan menyediakan suasana suka membaca
17. Mengizinkan anak-anak menjamah makanan dan minuman yang tidak halal
18. Tidak menunjukkan contoh tauladan yang baik di hadapan anak-anak
19. Jarang meluangkan masa untuk bergurau senda dengan anak-anak
20. Terdapat jurang komunikasi di antara ibubapa dengan anak-anak
21. Tidak menggunakan bahasa yang betul
22. Suka bertengkar di hadapan anak-anak
23. Sentiasa menunjukkan muka masam di hadapan anak-anak
24. Tidak membimbing anak-anak supaya mematuhi syariat
25. Memberi kebebasan yang berlebihan kepada anak-anak
26. Terlalu mengongkong kebebasan anak-anak
27. Tidak menunaikan janji yang dibuat terhadap anak-anak
28. Tidak menunjukkan minat kepada aktiviti anak-anak
29. Tidak memupuk semangat membaca di kalangan anak-anak
30. Tidak berminat melayan pertanyaan atau kemusykilan anak-anak
31. Tidak memberi perhatian terhadap buah fikiran anak-anak
32. Lambat memberi penghargaan kepada anak-anak
33. Kerap meleteri sesuatu kesilapan yang dilakukan anak-anak
34. Hukuman yang tidak setimpal dengan kesalahan yang dilakukan
35. Sering mengancam dan menakutkan anak-anak
36. Menghukum tanpa menyatakan kesalahan yang dilakukan
37. Tidak konsisten dalam menjatuhkan hukuman ke atas anak-anak
38. Memberi nasihat yang sama kepada anak-anak
39. Tidak tegas mendidik anak-anak
40. Tidak menggalakkan anak-anak hidup bekerjasama

What a buzy day for me...

2007-03-27T10:53:00.000+08:00

Before 5th April I have to finish all my work bcoz I will be taking a week leave to rehat2... so this week I am so..so.. busy.. I have to settle my weekly report, I have to settle all the cancellation cheque, settle all the invoices and the most important thing is to settle all their monthly claims, otherwise finance department will bising2... hahaha... I will be back to the office on 11th April. "mesti that time malas giler nak dtg kerja :-)" Wah!! what a long break... hehehe...

Ok just wait for me to update my blog after I am coming back from my leave... May be I will cerita apa yang I buat masa my long break... hehehe...

Happy working guys... ;-p

Aswad - Keranamu

2007-03-19T13:22:00.001+08:00

Ni la dia rakaman video peribadi aswad. Memang best la dia nyanyi..

Orked Mukhsin: Episod 4

2007-03-16T16:07:00.001+08:00

This movie also my kids fav.. I will bring them to watch this movie...

Petua menambat hati suami

2007-03-16T15:48:00.000+08:00

Beberapa petua yang disediakan ini kemungkinan dapat membantu anda dalam usaha
menambat hati suami:

1. Selalu berdoa agar suami sentiasa menyayangi kita. Apabila suami pulang dari kerja, tegur dan sentuh suami sebelum membuat kerja-kerja lain.

2. Tunjukkan keprihatinan dengan bertanya secara khusus mengenai aktiviti suami sepanjang hari, (jika suami dalam mood yang sesuai). Belajar dan berlatihlah untuk mendengar dengan baik dan bertanya dengan tepat. Jangan tergesa-gesa untuk menyelesai masalah suami. Apa yang lebih penting ialah memberi perhatian dan simpati.

3. Luangkan masa yang betul-betul "berkualiti" sekurang-kurangnya 30 minit setiap hari kepada suami.

4. Tanya keluarga suami terutama ibu mentua, mengenai hadiah yang disukai oleh suami dan belikan hadiah tersebut sebagai cenderahati atau untuk memujuk.

5. Sekali sekala cuba hidangkan resipi ibu mentua yang menjadi kegemaran suami. Beri pujian terhadap penampilan suami seperti rambut, wajah,pakaian dan sebagainya.

6. Cepat-cepat pujuk apabila suami marah atau berkecil hati.

7. Jangan biarkan suami menunggu terlalu lama terutama apabila bersiap. Ucapkan terima kasih kepada suami apabila dia memberitahu akan pulang lewat. Pesan kepada suami agar menelefon anda sekiranya suami mempunyai tugasan di luar.

8. Apabila suami meminta bantuan, buatlah serta merta dengan ikhlas dan gembira. Jangan mengungkit atau banyak memberi komen.

9. Ucapkan kata-kata sayang yang romantik pada suami sekurang-kurangnya 2 kali sehari. Jika kita marah, tunggu hingga sejuk. Bila sudah sejuk beritahu suami apa yang mengganggu fikiran secara sopan. Jangan sesekali salahkan suami.

10. Beri perhatian sepenuhnya kepada suami apabila dia bercakap. Kalau boleh, hentikan apa jua pekerjaan yang sedang dilakukan.

11. Peluk suami dengan penuh kasih sayang sebanyak 7 kali sehari.

12. Telefon suami di tempat kerja hanya apabila ada perkara penting atau kecemasan sahaja. Telefonlah dengan lebih kerap apabila suami menggalakkannya. Jangan ganggu suami ketika dia sedang asyik melakukan sesuatu yang memerlukan penelitian.

13. Apabila meminta bantuan suami, terangkan kepadanya dengan jelas mengenai kerja-kerja rumah yang perlu bantuan. Beri pilihan kerja yang disukainya. Jangan memaksa, sebaliknya gunakan perkataan yang sesuai dan lemah lembut.

14. Sentiasalah kemas, anggun dan wangi sebelum tidur bersama..

15. Beri layanan istimewa kepada suami di hari-hari istimewa seperti keluar 'dating' atau 'berbulan madu' sekali sekala.

16. Hantar kad ucap selamat pada hari-hari istimewa. Belai dan urut mengurut suami dari semasa ke semasa.

TEN SECRETS TO BE A BETTER PERSON

2007-03-16T15:35:00.000+08:00

THE POWER OF THOUGHT
Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving
thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships.
Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and
ourselves. If we want to love someone, we need to consider his/her
needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you
recognize him/her when you meet him/her.

THE POWER OF RESPECT
You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them.The
first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-
respect, ask yourself, what do I respect about myself?? To gain
respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself, what
do I respect about them??

THE POWER OF GIVING
If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it. The more
love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of
yourself, freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of
kindness. Before committing to a relationship, ask not what the
other person will be able to give you but rather what will you be
able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong and
loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead
of what you can take.

THE POWER OF FRIENDSHIP
To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does
not consist of gazing into each other's eyes but rather looking
outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely
you must first love him/her for who they are and not what they look
like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you
want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring
friendship.

THE POWER OF TOUCH
Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down
barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and
emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

THE POWER OF LETTING GO
If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you, then
it's yours. If it does not, it never was. Even in a loving
relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to
love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and
grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, ego and
conditions. Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power
over me -- today is the beginning of a new life!

THE POWER OF COMMUNICATION
When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To
love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love
know that you love them and appreciate them. Never let an
opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love
with a loving word last it could be the last time you see him/her.
If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the
people you love, who would you call, what would you say and......why
are you waiting?

THE POWER OF COMMITMENT
If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it
and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions.
Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving
relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When
you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an
option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a
strong one.

THE POWER OF PASSION
Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not
come through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep
commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be
recreated by recreating past experiences. When you feel passionate,
spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and
happiness are the sameall we need to do is to live each day with
passion.

THE POWER OF TRUST
Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one
person becomes suspicious, envious and fearful and the other person
feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone
completely unless you trust him/her completely. Act as if your
relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the
ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask
yourself, do I trust them completely and unreservedly? If the answer
is no, then think carefully before making a commitment.

We are born with two eyes in front because we must not always look
behind but see what lies ahead beyond ourselves. We are born with
two ears, one left and one right, so that we can hear both sides,
collect both the compliments and criticisms. We are born with a
brain concealed in a skull, then no matter how poor we are, we are
still rich and no one can steal what our brain contains. We are born
with two eyes, two ears but one mouth for the mouth is a sharp
weapon. It can hurt, flirt and kill: remember our motto -- talk
less, listen and see more. We are born with only one heart, deep in
our ribs and it reminds us to appreciate and give love from deep
within.

Mr. Bean's Holiday trailer #2

2007-03-16T15:22:00.001+08:00

My kids really2 want to watch this movie.. Mummy will bring both of you to watch this movie... Mummy promise..

Nyum...nyum... Ice Cream ^_^

2007-03-15T16:33:00.000+08:00

Wonder If I can eat those Ice Cream.. It looks so so Yummmy...

Ish... bestnyer kalau ader Ice Cream macam ni... Mmmm...

A&W..

2007-03-14T13:40:00.000+08:00

Last Sunday 11.03.07, Me & my 2 princesses when to A&W to makan2. Actually dah lama gler kita org tak pergi A&W. Nak2 lagi A&W kat Seremban baru jerk di Renovate. My 2 kids memang seronok sangat biler dapat makan kat sana. Mula la yang si kakak kata, nanti biler kakaknyer birthday kakak nak wat kat sini... Sama la kalau dia pergi mana2 fast food restaurant.. Attach here is a few picture of our makan2 that day..

My daughter 5th Birthday...

2007-02-23T15:39:00.000+08:00

10th January 2007 was my daughter 5th birthday. Yang best nyer birthday dia sam dengan ayah dia. Tahun nie dia beriya-iya sangat nak wat birthday party kat sekolah, Katanya nak sambut ngan kawan2.. So I dah plan aper yang nak dia beli, aper yang nak dibagi pada kawan2 Elly. One day before her birthday, I g TOYS'R'US beli her present and jer belons, goody bag, paper plate n sewaktu dengannyer la...

On her birthday, I dtg ke sekolah dia waktu dia org tgh break.. I saw her so happy bila dapat tau dia akan celebrate birthday kat sekolah... actually dah lama she wants to celebrate kat sekolah ngan kawan2 tapi I dont have time to sediakan brg2 yang perlu utk birthday party.. So this year I try to spend some time to do her party at her school..

She is very happy went her frinds nyayi "Happy Birthday" song to her.. This year I gave her Barbie Bed Room N Bath Set. Memang dah lama dia nak set barbie tu, biar la mahal asalkan she's happy.. After finished at her school I have to rush back to KL to jumpa my husband plak.. To celebrate and to give him his present... Actually that time blum lagi beli hadiah dia... sebelum jumpa dia nak kena pergi Low Yatt untuk beli hadiah dia. He dah lama nak MP3 player, so I decide to belikan dia MP3 set..

After beli hadiah tu, I terus ke tmpt kerja dia.. but he asked me to tunggu at KLCC.. dia akan dtg sana.. Actually palnned nak g makan kat Nandos, tapi memandangkan that time lunch hour, n nak plak hari tu hari Jumaat ramai plak org... So he decided to watched movie... Actually dia tgh keje tau masa tu, tapi nasib baik dia boleh kluar utk a few hours...

So that day hari yang amat memenatkan... mana tak nyer... pagi kena settle my Elly's birthday and after that my hubby plak... tapi yang penting dua2 org tersayang happy... I luv my family...

Bulan 2 ni plak lagi la byk nak kena buat.. my second daughter plak nak birthday.. yang nie lagi best dia nak wat BBQ masa birthday dia... alahai anakku... Mummy akan tunaikan... (Memang dah tertunai pun) Blog pasal birthday Fiqah akan di tulis dlm beberapa hari lagi ekk.. Tungguuu....

NUR ELIISYA SAFFIYAH

MUHAMAD SUPIYAN

Ang Pau

2007-02-23T14:31:00.000+08:00

Ang Pau yang diterima dari GM (Thomas Loke), ACSD (May Kim) & CSM (Joey Chin). Masih lagi menunggu ang pau dar1 OD, OM's & of coz dari CEO (Mr Raymond) hehehehe...

Thank you to all of you.. Suppose I tak patutu dapat Ang Pau sebab dah kawin, tapi duit nie bkn utk I tapi anak2 I ler...

Thank you to you guys... Tahun depan bagi lagi la... hehehehee!!!

Check out my Slide Show!

2007-02-23T10:53:00.001+08:00

Gigi pertama anak ku da tanggal....

2007-02-23T10:08:00.000+08:00

A few weeks ago, I realise that syafiqah's teeth yang kat bawah da bengkok. So I try usik gigi dia, no wander la senget rupanya da goyang tunggu masa nak tanggal jer... Bila I ckp kat dia yang gigi dia akan tanggal memang excited sangat dia... She always ask me when her teeth nak tanggal? Tangan dia gatal asyik nak goyang2kan gigi tu jer.. Hahaha!! Memang excited betul dia, mana taknya auntie dia yang 6 tahun tu dua gigi da tanggal gak, so dia pun nak merasa la jugak macam mana tak der gigi. Kih!Kih!Kih! So last week gigi dia patut da boleh cabut pakai tangan, tapi dia tak nak I cabutkan. Dia kata biar gigi tu cabut dengan sendiri. But my sis cakap kat dia, nanti masa tido tertanggal pastu tertelan, tak dapat duit gigi.. Hahah... tapi dia wat dont know jer.. Esoknya tu bila dia bangun gigi dia da tanggal, puas gak la dia cari gigi dia. Last 2 jumpa gak gigi dia tu.. DIa letak gigi tu dalam gelas so berharap sangat ader fairy letak duit kat bawah gelas tu... B4 i g keje, I letak beberapa keping duit RM1 kat bwh gelas tu... Petang 2 I balik I asked her, da dapat duit dari fairy tak? Dia kata ader byk fiqah dapat... Suka nyer dia... Hahaha... I always want her to be happy.. Adik dia mcm jealous skit, tapi I bagi kan jgk dia duit, I dont want her to rasa terpinggir... I also want her to be happy...I LUV BOTH OF THEM...