Romantic things to do for your wife - Things she'll simply love

Mark those special days

Make a last of all the days that she might want to celebrate - the
day you met, your yearly anniversary, even the anniversary of your
first kiss! If not all, make it a point to lavish more time on her
on one of these occasions! A little handmade card (even if it's
plain paper folded over) will do.

Reach out and touch her

Nothing brightens up your day more than a warm hug or a tight
squeeze before setting out for work. An inviting warm hug or back
rub at the end of a stressful day is always appreciated.

Make her feel special... everyday!

You could do little things for her everyday. It might be forwarding
her an interesting article, sending her a joke or even sharing
office gossip. She will appreciate that you took a moment to think
of her during the course of your day.

It's the thought that counts

Do something thoughtful for her everyday. Make her a cup of coffee,
bring in the newspaper from the terrace, stick a surprise note in
her bag or send her flowers at office! Everyone loves a romantic
surprise. Go ahead, make her day!

Wow her... daily!

Just because you're together doesn't mean you don't pay attention to
your appearance. Show off your best! Women love to see their men
preening for them - shave, smell nice, look good. When she knows
it's for her, she'll love it!

Romantic things to do for your husband - Things he will simply love

Rule 1: Don't expect return favours in return!

Special meals, candle-light dinners, whatever else you do for him
should be because you are obliged to do so! It's nice if he does
something for you in return, but don't expect him to do stuff for
you as well.

Rule 2: In control!

Men love to see their women run the show - whether it's dinner for
his boss, a picnic with friends or buying a gift for his best
friend. Take charge and let him get his kicks out of watching his
girl go!

Rule 3: Junk mushy, try funny....

.. or whatever else appeals to him. If he hasn't been responding to
your sappy love notes, it's time to try a different approach. A cute
joke might just be what the doctor prescribed!

Rule 4: Think sex. Mostly!

They say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Well, we
say it lies lower! So we've been told that men think sex all the
time. Well, while you make sure your man stays happy most of the
time, it's a good idea to do something else as well. Think up an
interesting diversion - lay a game, challenge him - and watch sparks
fly!

Rule 5: Join him, beat him!

If you don't like your man's video game playing, or F1
watching, stop cribbing and join in. When he sees you're
appreciating what he does, he'll join in what you want to do too. Be
patient!

40 kesilapan mendidik anak...

Kepada Ibubapa & Bakal Ibubapa, sila didik anak2 anda dengan betul...
Jadikan contoh2 dibawah sebagai panduan...

1.Pemilihan jodoh tanpa memperhitungkan mengenai zuriat
2. Perhubungan suami isteri tanpa memperhitungkan mengenai zuriat
3. Kurang berlemah lembut terhadap anak-anak
4. Memaki hamun sebagai cara menegur kesilapan anak-anak
5. Tidak berusaha mempelbagaikan makanan yang disajikan kepada anak-anak
6. Jarang bersama anak-anak sewaktu mereka sedang makan
7. Melahirkan suasana yang kurang seronok ketika makan
8. Membeza-bezakan kasih sayang terhadap anak-anak
9. Kurang melahirkan kasih sayang
10. Sering mengeluh di hadapan anak-anak
11. Tidak meraikan anak-anak ketika mereka pergi dan pulang dari sekolah
12. Tidak mengenalkan anak-anak dengan konsep keadilan
13. Tidak memberatkan pendidikan agama di kalangan anak-anak
14. Tidak terlibat dengan urusan pelajaran anak-anak
15. Tidak memprogramkan masa rehat dan riadah anak-anak
16. Tidak menggalakkan dan menyediakan suasana suka membaca
17. Mengizinkan anak-anak menjamah makanan dan minuman yang tidak halal
18. Tidak menunjukkan contoh tauladan yang baik di hadapan anak-anak
19. Jarang meluangkan masa untuk bergurau senda dengan anak-anak
20. Terdapat jurang komunikasi di antara ibubapa dengan anak-anak
21. Tidak menggunakan bahasa yang betul
22. Suka bertengkar di hadapan anak-anak
23. Sentiasa menunjukkan muka masam di hadapan anak-anak
24. Tidak membimbing anak-anak supaya mematuhi syariat
25. Memberi kebebasan yang berlebihan kepada anak-anak
26. Terlalu mengongkong kebebasan anak-anak
27. Tidak menunaikan janji yang dibuat terhadap anak-anak
28. Tidak menunjukkan minat kepada aktiviti anak-anak
29. Tidak memupuk semangat membaca di kalangan anak-anak
30. Tidak berminat melayan pertanyaan atau kemusykilan anak-anak
31. Tidak memberi perhatian terhadap buah fikiran anak-anak
32. Lambat memberi penghargaan kepada anak-anak
33. Kerap meleteri sesuatu kesilapan yang dilakukan anak-anak
34. Hukuman yang tidak setimpal dengan kesalahan yang dilakukan
35. Sering mengancam dan menakutkan anak-anak
36. Menghukum tanpa menyatakan kesalahan yang dilakukan
37. Tidak konsisten dalam menjatuhkan hukuman ke atas anak-anak
38. Memberi nasihat yang sama kepada anak-anak
39. Tidak tegas mendidik anak-anak
40. Tidak menggalakkan anak-anak hidup bekerjasama

What a buzy day for me...

Before 5th April I have to finish all my work bcoz I will be taking a week leave to rehat2... so this week I am so..so.. busy.. I have to settle my weekly report, I have to settle all the cancellation cheque, settle all the invoices and the most important thing is to settle all their monthly claims, otherwise finance department will bising2... hahaha... I will be back to the office on 11th April. "mesti that time malas giler nak dtg kerja :-)" Wah!! what a long break... hehehe...

Ok just wait for me to update my blog after I am coming back from my leave... May be I will cerita apa yang I buat masa my long break... hehehe...

Happy working guys... ;-p

Aswad - Keranamu

Ni la dia rakaman video peribadi aswad. Memang best la dia nyanyi..

Orked Mukhsin: Episod 4

This movie also my kids fav.. I will bring them to watch this movie...

Petua menambat hati suami

Beberapa petua yang disediakan ini kemungkinan dapat membantu anda dalam usaha
menambat hati suami:


1. Selalu berdoa agar suami sentiasa menyayangi kita. Apabila suami pulang dari kerja, tegur dan sentuh suami sebelum membuat kerja-kerja lain.

2. Tunjukkan keprihatinan dengan bertanya secara khusus mengenai aktiviti suami sepanjang hari, (jika suami dalam mood yang sesuai). Belajar dan berlatihlah untuk mendengar dengan baik dan bertanya dengan tepat. Jangan tergesa-gesa untuk menyelesai masalah suami. Apa yang lebih penting ialah memberi perhatian dan simpati.

3. Luangkan masa yang betul-betul "berkualiti" sekurang-kurangnya 30 minit setiap hari kepada suami.

4. Tanya keluarga suami terutama ibu mentua, mengenai hadiah yang disukai oleh suami dan belikan hadiah tersebut sebagai cenderahati atau untuk memujuk.

5. Sekali sekala cuba hidangkan resipi ibu mentua yang menjadi kegemaran suami. Beri pujian terhadap penampilan suami seperti rambut, wajah,pakaian dan sebagainya.

6. Cepat-cepat pujuk apabila suami marah atau berkecil hati.

7. Jangan biarkan suami menunggu terlalu lama terutama apabila bersiap. Ucapkan terima kasih kepada suami apabila dia memberitahu akan pulang lewat. Pesan kepada suami agar menelefon anda sekiranya suami mempunyai tugasan di luar.

8. Apabila suami meminta bantuan, buatlah serta merta dengan ikhlas dan gembira. Jangan mengungkit atau banyak memberi komen.

9. Ucapkan kata-kata sayang yang romantik pada suami sekurang-kurangnya 2 kali sehari. Jika kita marah, tunggu hingga sejuk. Bila sudah sejuk beritahu suami apa yang mengganggu fikiran secara sopan. Jangan sesekali salahkan suami.

10. Beri perhatian sepenuhnya kepada suami apabila dia bercakap. Kalau boleh, hentikan apa jua pekerjaan yang sedang dilakukan.

11. Peluk suami dengan penuh kasih sayang sebanyak 7 kali sehari.

12. Telefon suami di tempat kerja hanya apabila ada perkara penting atau kecemasan sahaja. Telefonlah dengan lebih kerap apabila suami menggalakkannya. Jangan ganggu suami ketika dia sedang asyik melakukan sesuatu yang memerlukan penelitian.

13. Apabila meminta bantuan suami, terangkan kepadanya dengan jelas mengenai kerja-kerja rumah yang perlu bantuan. Beri pilihan kerja yang disukainya. Jangan memaksa, sebaliknya gunakan perkataan yang sesuai dan lemah lembut.

14. Sentiasalah kemas, anggun dan wangi sebelum tidur bersama..

15. Beri layanan istimewa kepada suami di hari-hari istimewa seperti keluar 'dating' atau 'berbulan madu' sekali sekala.

16. Hantar kad ucap selamat pada hari-hari istimewa. Belai dan urut mengurut suami dari semasa ke semasa.

TEN SECRETS TO BE A BETTER PERSON

THE POWER OF THOUGHT
Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving
thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships.
Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and
ourselves. If we want to love someone, we need to consider his/her
needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you
recognize him/her when you meet him/her.

THE POWER OF RESPECT
You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them.The
first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-
respect, ask yourself, what do I respect about myself?? To gain
respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself, what
do I respect about them??

THE POWER OF GIVING
If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it. The more
love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of
yourself, freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of
kindness. Before committing to a relationship, ask not what the
other person will be able to give you but rather what will you be
able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong and
loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead
of what you can take.

THE POWER OF FRIENDSHIP
To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does
not consist of gazing into each other's eyes but rather looking
outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely
you must first love him/her for who they are and not what they look
like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you
want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring
friendship.

THE POWER OF TOUCH
Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down
barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and
emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

THE POWER OF LETTING GO
If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you, then
it's yours. If it does not, it never was. Even in a loving
relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to
love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and
grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, ego and
conditions. Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power
over me -- today is the beginning of a new life!

THE POWER OF COMMUNICATION
When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To
love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love
know that you love them and appreciate them. Never let an
opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love
with a loving word last it could be the last time you see him/her.
If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the
people you love, who would you call, what would you say and......why
are you waiting?

THE POWER OF COMMITMENT
If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it
and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions.
Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving
relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When
you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an
option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a
strong one.

THE POWER OF PASSION
Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not
come through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep
commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be
recreated by recreating past experiences. When you feel passionate,
spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and
happiness are the sameall we need to do is to live each day with
passion.

THE POWER OF TRUST
Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one
person becomes suspicious, envious and fearful and the other person
feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone
completely unless you trust him/her completely. Act as if your
relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the
ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask
yourself, do I trust them completely and unreservedly? If the answer
is no, then think carefully before making a commitment.

We are born with two eyes in front because we must not always look
behind but see what lies ahead beyond ourselves. We are born with
two ears, one left and one right, so that we can hear both sides,
collect both the compliments and criticisms. We are born with a
brain concealed in a skull, then no matter how poor we are, we are
still rich and no one can steal what our brain contains. We are born
with two eyes, two ears but one mouth for the mouth is a sharp
weapon. It can hurt, flirt and kill: remember our motto -- talk
less, listen and see more. We are born with only one heart, deep in
our ribs and it reminds us to appreciate and give love from deep
within.

Mr. Bean's Holiday trailer #2

My kids really2 want to watch this movie.. Mummy will bring both of you to watch this movie... Mummy promise..

Nyum...nyum... Ice Cream ^_^

Wonder If I can eat those Ice Cream.. It looks so so Yummmy...





Ish... bestnyer kalau ader Ice Cream macam ni... Mmmm...

A&W..

Last Sunday 11.03.07, Me & my 2 princesses when to A&W to makan2. Actually dah lama gler kita org tak pergi A&W. Nak2 lagi A&W kat Seremban baru jerk di Renovate. My 2 kids memang seronok sangat biler dapat makan kat sana. Mula la yang si kakak kata, nanti biler kakaknyer birthday kakak nak wat kat sini... Sama la kalau dia pergi mana2 fast food restaurant.. Attach here is a few picture of our makan2 that day..